"It's better to be a good nobody than an evil somebody"

If there is one thing I can't stand, it's someone that's not a person of their word. But to add my disclaimer, anyone that has done anything to me, to include not keeping their word, I have always forgiven them as long as they come to me and sincerely apologize. My friends call me stupid sometimes but that's just my heart forgiving. I love people. I just don't always like their ways. Love is ever forgiving. But, taking advantage is not love, right?

If I say I'm gonna do something, you can count on me to do it, no doubt. If I didn't follow thru on my word to you, I wouldn't be able to sleep. For instance, I could never owe anyone money and be able to sleep at night (thank God this has never occurred but if it did I would make it priority over anything else). Some people just assume that you have it but they never know your circumstances. 

I also don't appreciate when people don't take your time seriously. (Time is money). I learned this from one of my best friends. If we were going somewhere and I'd forget, she'd be there and super upset if I forgot. Sometimes, I'm a la la carefree person and may miss an appointment or two. In the past year, I organized my business schedule to clear three days to accommodate clients only for them to have cancelled at the last minute. It's a lesson learned because now I require a deposit before I book a big job that will tie up my day (...lessons of life being too nice). From that, I know not to say I'll be somewhere and not show (late sometimes but I'm showing up).

Moral of the story is respect people's time(even when someone takes the time to do something nice for you) and money and most of all friendship. It's not worth losing friends over being inconsiderate and unappreciative, right?

Tip of the day: Credibility is everything (that's what credit is about)

Wearing: LV bag, CL heels, James Perse t-shirt(so comfy),J brand pants, Sweet Rags custom made vest.

Secretly your're watching...

Hope everyone had a great weekend.:) 

• I love colors, anything bright.
• As you can also tell these are one of my favorite pair of shoes.
• When you leave a comment can you please leave the name of your site. My friends and I are sometimes curious and would like to check out your blog.
• Thanks NECA for leaving a comment on every post from the day I started.
• Forget personal issues this site is about fashion and wisdom, focus!
• Done with my random thoughts for now...
• Have a great day!!!!

 Tip of the day: Be wise as a serpent humble as a dove!

Wearing: Random top, F21 skirt and belt(backwards) CL heels, LV wallet.

I'm special to him...

It's our Anniversary!!! 

5 years ago today is the day I married the love of my life! I can tell you about the rough road on the way here but I'll save that for another day because right now I feel so blessed to know that we made it this far and are more in love than the first day we met. He really has grown into the man I love. What I mean is, when you first meet someone it's all fun. Then, things change, you change, kids come along, the scenery changes and then everything is different. I love the man he has grown to be , the father he has grown to be, the husband he has grown to be. I wouldn't change anything about him or what we've been through because that's what got us where we are right now, still back to the root of things and still in love!!! I'm so happy today and can't wait for my anniversary present. He can never wait until dinner. He's so excited about what he has for me that the anticipation of seeing my reaction when I open my gift is fun for him. But it's not just about the material gift. It's just a jump start on how exciting our lovely evening will be and what is in store. Like wearing something he has never seen me in or putting on his favorite dress and what ever he says for the rest of the evening. He is my King (that's his gift). Baby, thanks for always coming after me and loving me when sometimes I don't love myself, encouraging me, and listening to me when I'm sad. Take it in , digest it, and let it go, as he says. LOML(love of my life). Here's to 555 more years! Baby, WE MADE IT!!!!!!!!! Smooth sailing from here with God in our life!

Sorry the pics aren't clear. I took the pics of my album with my camera. Didn't have time to download the pics to my new computer. My husband is really private so I wasen't gonna post these pics but he apporoved (:B).On my way out, gotta go see ya next time...