I'm loving this effortless long skirt. It provides the right amount of style with comfort. 

Chain necklaces are the new trend that repeats itself year after year. If you don't have any get one asap!

Another trend that repeats itself are the thicker belts.

This was a perfect outfit for warm weather in winter.

Wearing:F21 skirt, Target tank, Dior heels, Chanel Bag.

I'll make this my look on Valentine's day. Hopefully I'll have the energy to do it. This takes work...

It seems that people are so cut throat now a days. They only live for right now. They don't think of the long term possibility that a business relationship can bring. When you are doing business with someone it is your duty to give that person your best especially if that person is paying you. You have to give quality. Furthermore when you do that it creates longevity and that's how you build relationships. When you don't conduct your business properly it's like giving someone false hope. They won't return.

As I grow in business I'm seeing more and more the way people are. I try to be the same way in business as I live my life, I treat everyone fair and respectful because a long term relationship is always worth working towards and nourishing. I'm still a work in progress. 

Tip of the day: Stand behind whatever you do...it's a reflection of you.

Wearing: Ysl shoes, Prada Bag

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate, our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure...we ask ourselves who am I to be brilliant, talented and fabulous, actually who are you not to be"

Tip of the day: Take care of you so you can take care of the people around you...

Wearing: Fredricks of Hollywood Jacket, MIU MIU wedges, LV bag.]]>http://www.majormusthaves.com/blog/rss-comments-entry-14755653.xmlmajormusthaveThu, 26 Jan 2012 04:00:00 +0000http://www.majormusthaves.com/blog/2012/1/25/just-because-youre-a-boy-doesnt-mean-youre-a-man.html459667:5169335:14721151

Some men have a perception that just because they are males, that makes them men and that's not the case. A real man takes care of his family, his responsibilities and his self. He should never lean on a woman to take care of him because it should make him feel less than a man. 

It's ok if you've been with someone for a long time and he has a struggle for a bit and you take over. That's what partnership is about. I'd take care of my husband if I had to until he got on his feet if something were to happen to him financially. But he's such a man that he wouldn't even want anything from me. He would get up and stock shelves at the grocery store if he had to because he has no pride when it comes to providing for his family. 

This is where a lot of men have things twisted because they feel like they wouldn't do certain things so they just rather not work at all so all the strain is left on the woman and this isn't right. This is when the boy comes in and they need to MAN up. My cousin Brandon is in the marines and he's going to China for 3 years (I'll miss him) and when I look at him I see a man. Whenever he's around he fixes things, he opens doors he makes me proud to call him my cousin. He's a Man. One of my god sons came to visit me at my job and he's only 10 and when I was leaving he said let me walk you to your car. I smiled and said that's a little Man:).

I'm saying this to say nothing should really ever be one sided it should always be a team effort. If you are a woman and you do the providing for the household then your man should have dinner ready, clothes washed, kids picked up from school, ect.. If he's just sitting on his butt all day and you have to do everything what purpose does he serve. Just to say you have a boy should never be the case. Having a Man around always makes things a little easier whether it be your father, uncle, cousin husband or boyfriend while still commending the women that do it all on their own!

Wearing: H&M dress (never wear on a hot/windy day), Ysl heels, LV Bag.

• So today I came to the conclusion that I'm going to stop feeling sorry for grown people. I will help kids and people that are less fortunate but other than that I can't...
• I 'm also going to stop down playing everything  to make others feel better becasue you know what, they'll find something wrong regardless.
• For the woman that are hard workers, loyal to their family/friends, congratulating and never hating, please know... always know you'll always be 1,000 steps ahead of the evil fakers out here...

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I've been sooo busy but I'll be back soon...

“God and Nature first made us what we are, and then out of our own created genius we make ourselves what we want to be. Follow always that great law. Let the sky and God be our limit and Eternity our measurement."

He's was a deep man. I'm greatful that he was able to share his knowledge with others before he passed. 

Tip of the day: "It is a good policy to keep a good honorable name. People will trust you on a good name." -Marcus Garvey

Wearing: Old Navy sweater, Liz Claiborne blouse, J Brand plaid pants, CL Heels, Gucci bag.

As you can tell from previous post I love wearing black, tan and brown together. It really works.

Wore this while doing some personal shopping for my client yesterday. These shoes were quite comfy despite how they might appear not to be.

Wearing: Zara blazer, Calvin Klien Cargo pants, Target tnk, Givenchy Caged Booties.