I know you’re thinking, this girl runs her mouth, but I like to share my life experiences with you because I know many people go through the same things. I also care about people and I’m a deep person. I always look forward to the responses that people share. I love receiving and reading your comments. All the feedback that I receive makes it so worth it.
Lately, I’ve observed that people tend to put others down or to find fault in the things that they do (get dirt on them). The truth is, everyone has a past but it’s about today, the future (moving forward) and what’s in your heart. God controls my destiny so even when the devil tries to use someone to get to me, they will never succeed because at the end of the day, I follow what God tells me to do. There’s a thin line between words and wounds and it’s very cruel to get a laugh out of the misfortune of others.
Imagine an instance where someone gets into a car accident, something happens to them that causes a terminal handicap and then someone makes fun of them. That would be sad, right? It’s just as sad that someone would have to use other’s faults and bring attention to other people’s short comings or difficulties to get attention for themselves. Those are desperate acts. I really get sad when I think about my girls growing up in a world where people are so cruel and evil. Face it, people who get joy out of talking about someone or trying to put them down are evil.
I thought I’d take this time out to try and encourage you because sometimes I have to look deep inside and encourage myself that what goes on in life and how you look is not by accident. God knows how many hairs are on your head and exactly what the blueprint of your entire life looks like. There is an experience to learn from in every scenario. I look for the positive in people. Trying to find the negative is a very unhealthy habit.
When people have no peace and are unhappy they try to take the focus off of themselves by pointing out the flaws of others. I hope that if anyone is going through this kind of experience right now that they will find strength in God and within themselves and don’t let the people that say things affect you. People can’t stop the plans of greatness that God has for your life. If they continue to try to bring you down, they are NOBODYS…!!!! Likewise, if you are a person that has gotten caught up with trying to bring others down please remember that….. As you continue in that way, karma will catch up and the shoe will be on the other foot. Karma is real. You don’t get away with anything in this life. If u think so you are sadly mistaken. Decide whether you are going to move in a negative direction and promote negativity or whether you will be positive and push forward against the negativity. Have a great week!
Quote of the day:”How people treat you is their Karma, how you react is yours!” Tanvi
Keep ya head up faithful readers! Until next time, peace and love.
P.S. Thanks to the bloggers that featured me on their sites. I hope that we can continue to support one another in a respectable and decent manner. 
Wearing: Banna Republic blouse, DVF Skirt, Fendi heels, Dior bag.
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Yup!
I hear you .
Those damn haters on LA are as evil as they come .
Keep up the good work .
Cute outfit as usual! Hurting people hurt people and no matter how insightful or understanding you are of that fact, it still can get under your skin. I find getting to the root of things and other folks disgusting behavior (including me) helps me w/ tolerance because w/o that I can’t pray like I need to for them or for my self. It’s about dealing in truths and I need to know why a person feel so propelled to hurt someone else. It’s definitely an evil spirit operating in that. This was an encouraging and uplifting post. I just had to comment~ I check it out all the time cause I get super inspired!
Thanks for the post. Love the outfit!!!. I always enjoy reading posts like this. I am personally barely hanging by a thread even though people around me could never tell, and posts like this always give me a glimmer of hope that everything will be alright hopefully.
WOW! Soooo well put. Couldn’t have said it better myself!! What’s the saying about those that ASSume??? Keep doing what you do. You are BEAUTIFUL…..inside and out.
You gorgeous gorgeous gorgeous woman! 🙂 You are spot on on your thoughts. Let’s focus on the good, the positive. Everyone is made of good and bad. It’s up to us to focus on the ‘good’ … I like your strength and your thoughts.
Love your outfit. Your yellow thoughts! That bag is amazing!!! Love it soooo much!!!
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Great post and cute outfit as usual! 🙂 We have to remember to surround ourselves with people who are positive and uplifting. Negativity is contagious if you are around it too long. Some people don’t even realize how they are. But all we can do is push past it and move on. Keep it up chica and stay encouraged!!
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You look beautiful! People are crazy. Keep your head up and keep doing your thing.
love that quote and your outfit!
Very well said! Haters never prosper…they evaporate! Let’s not waste our time on them, now back to business!!!
So when are you starting the advice column?:) For reals? I am sure there is way to filter the questions, so you will not get "toxic waste" on your site. I need some fashion advice, and i am sure there are others that would appreciate your input as well. Please keep the post coming. Your style and insight is dead on! Where there is truth there is adversity…
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I never comment on your blog but I visit your site everyday…. I cant see why on earth people would want to be hateful or hurtful towards you… people will be people… and like the quote says, you are responsible for your response. Hold your head up girl…. and the outfit is hot!
Lots of Love,
Coco
Ha gurl!! I like your skirt and top so cute its real chic
I love this blog. Beautiful outfit TS. I think so far my fav. outfit was one in a white pants with a blue printed top. Gosh, I loved that outfit on you. All your pics are gorgeous, but that’s my fav. This one is getting pretty close to knocking that one out. 🙂
Thanks for the inspiration.
xoxo,
Lynn
Gorgeous skirt, darling!
I love DVF!
xoxox,
CC
Real nice words. I understand what you mean and I will keep it in my heart. You outfit is fabolous, you look so beautiful, i love your hair!
xoxo
Kiki
Couldn’t have said it better myself!
I Love it!!! You should have snap your fingers twice at the end of this blog ( snap! snap!!!) Because that is real talk T !!! Like you told me, PEOPLE dont want to see you happy even if it is in a Relationship, Financially or Spiritally!!! (Just cant win with these haters) BTW Love the Fit, I want that skirt, and those are some beautiful shoes.
Hello its Cyndy, I really like your look its great! You give me many ideas for whenever I do decide to go out
Hello, I love your blog!! I come on here to see what different and beautiful outfits you have on. I bought those Steve Madden Leopard print wedges you had on in one picture, I love them. Thanks for the inspiration and keep doin you!
AWWWWW, Thanks everyone. We keep each other inspired. You guys keep it up.
@ Dana- Lift your head to the sky. He has your back so do I. Send me an e-mail if needed.
Great message and very inspiring and you are definetly right we live in such a cold cold world. Love that skirt and those shoes are awesome! KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK…..when’s the book coming out???? :0
‘When people have no peace and are unhappy they try to take the focus off of themselves by pointing out the flaws of others. ‘
I think this is very true. Great post, and gorgeous skirt 🙂
I relate on the part you wrote about always looking for the positive in people. I do the same, I refuse to beleive that people are intentionally bad or negaitve. The only problem with such thinking is that I end up seeing only good things in people and block out the evil. However being oblivious to it doesn’t mean it is not there.
Love the bag. Fabulous outfit as always.
I know what this is about and Tanya I hope you know that those women have tried to tear down any woman who is attractive, has a lot going for her and simply has been blessed in life. It doesn’t matter who the women was… if they looked good and life was good, they were on it trying to "get dirt".
Pathetic and miserable are two words that describe that kind of behavior.
Ignore the foolishness…. request that the site administrator take your pictures down and wish them well.
They cannot stop what God has for you. God will take care of them. "Vengeance is mine saith the Lord, I will repay".
God’s got this!
So this is where you are! I kept clicking on the other blog that had nothing there, so i thought, maybe you didn’t have a blog yet. Today, i clicked where it said website on your profile and voila! I wanted to thank you for sometime for commenting on my blog. You look great and i love those heels. Forget the haters. They’re everywhere, but, they usually have some issues, hence they feel the need to hate on others! I will follow you via bloglovin. Have a great day!
This outfit is perfect, you can wear it to dinner, work drinks…anywhere. Simply beautiful.
I can only say that the devil is working overtime in this world..It’s a shame that the women who are considered MOTHERS OF CIVILIZATION can act like this. If we keep it up these types of people will be reborn everyday. Who knows it could be your child that comes home crying because someone was talking about them at school. What will you do but put your head down and think about karma! If you even get pleasure out of kicking your sister from god down then you really are the devil that wears fake prada. Lol! We will continue to be at the bottom and never rise because we wont even raise our thoughts to be better. We are supposed to be GOD like! If this is what they teach in your church please let the world know so NONE ever attends that one!! Maybe us ladies should put a praise cd in our car and just listen to one or two songs just as a reminder that GOD is here.
HELLO love love love the look gotta have the shirt! wink….you look great. The yellow helps the sun to shine its reys on you.
i totally love this skirt!
I read the blog all the time and this is my first time commenting. I love that printed skirt with the top and shoes. LOVE IT! my style will be just like yours when i grow up and stop being a broke ass college student.lol
-Mimi
you are beautiful. inside and out.
great heels! love this outfit as always!
xoxo Mode Junkie
Hey Princess,
Leave the haters to God. Do not let them distract you from your PURPOSE AND DESTINY. IF GOD BE FOR YOU WHO CAN BE AGAINST YOU. GIRL YOU INHERIT THE HATERS. JESUS HAVE HATERS, YOUR GRAMA HAD HATERS, I HAVE HATERS SO I THINK YOU INHERIT THEM LOL. FOCUS ON WHO LOVE, VALUE, APPRECIATE AND CELEBRATE YOU. LADIES WAKE UP AND STOP HATING ON EACH OTHER. YOU NEVER SEE MEN DOING THIS CRAP TO EACH OTHER. I HAD A FRIEND WHO WAS TALKING ABOUT MY EX HUSBAND LIKE A DOG AND GIRL SHE HAD SO MANY SKELETONS, THEY WERE NOT ONLY HIDDEN IN THE CLOSETS, HER WHOLE HOUSE WAS FULL OF THEM AND HER DAUGHTER'S. SO PLEASE JUST LEAVE PEOPLE TO GOD AND LIVE YOUR LIFE. WHO CARES? STOP LOOKING ON THE EXTERIOR AND START LOOKING ON THE INSIDE, PEOPLE THAT HAVE GOOD HEART. YOU NEED TO BE LIKE ME, DO NOT WORRY WHAT PEOPLE SAY ABOUT YOU. HATERS YOU CAN KISS WHERE THE SUN DO NOT SHINE.
YOU ARE BLESSed WITH GOOD PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE. LOVE TO YOU PRINCESS, TANVI, JUSTME(GOD's child) LYNN L. Dana I am praying 4 you. I DECLARE & DECREE 4 GOD TO GRANT YOU WHATEVER YOUR HEARTS DESIRE.
MATT 21:22 AND ALL THINGS, WHATSOEVER YOU ASK IN PRAYER, BELIEVING, YOU SHALL RECEIVE.
PHILIPPIANS 4:13 I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHS ME
ROMANS 8 :28-35 ALL THINGS WORK TOGETHER FOR GOOD TO THEM THAT LOVE GOD, TO THEM WHO ARE THE CALED ACCORDING TO HIS PURPOSE.
WHO SHALL SEPARATE US FROM THE LOVE OF CHRIST? SHALL TRIBULATION, OR DISTRESS, OR PERSECUTION, OR FAMINE, OR NAKEDNESS, OR PERIL, OR SWORD?
EVIL DOERS GET A LIFE, SNAKES CRAWL BAD TO WHERE YOU BELONG.
LOVE MOMS
REMEMBER satan ONLY ATTACKS THOSE NEXT IN LINE FOR A PROMOTION. HATERS ONLY TALK ABOUT YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE SPECIAL AND THEY ARE JEALOUS.
LOVE MOMS
Tanya, you could've not said this any better. Some of us have come across certain people in life, who thrive off of negative energy and try to pull others into their misery… Life will be forever challenging, however, if we continue to be supportive of one another, it will help ease away some of this negative energy in the world… By the way, this is one of my favorite outfits, it's very well put together. I absolutely LOVE the colors! Very vibrant!
LOVE THIS SKIRT!!! So pretty…
I had to go back to this one….I can see myself at work with this…to hot gotta copy this babe just gotta!!!!
Get em girl! In more ways than one..enough said!!!
Just gotta cut off those haters!!
Found your site through Love Meagan!!
Love your style girl! this outfit rocks 🙂
You are truly a beautiful person inside and out and as I go through your blog I love each post more and more! Not to mention you have a fierce shoe collection! Thanks for the comment on my blog and I am adding you to my reader! K.I.T.!
You are a daily inspiration and a gift of upliftment, encouragement and fullspirit to so many women across the world. God has choosen you as a vessle that he designed with Grace and Style. Who can bring out Fashion, Poise, Spirituality and Grace under one umbrella? YOU! No matter how people appear to you in the form of the devil never let them destroy the design that God has created! I think that your are awsome and excellent and I admire your journey! Remember one thing: When you can change the lives of many and touch the hearts of several you are doing God's work! Countinue to walk in his path and be who you are! Continue to FACE THE WORLD WITH A SMILE!!! God Bless…… From on Belizean Princess to another….. 🙂
You are a daily inspiration and a gift of upliftment, encouragement and fullspirit to so many women across the world. God has choosen you as a vessle that he designed with Grace and Style. Who can bring out Fashion, Poise, Spirituality and Grace under one umbrella? YOU! No matter how people appear to you in the form of the devil never let them destroy the design that God has created! I think that your are awsome and excellent and I admire your journey! Remember one thing: When you can change the lives of many and touch the hearts of several you are doing God's work! Countinue to walk in his path and be who you are! Continue to FACE THE WORLD WITH A SMILE!!! God Bless…… From on Belizean Princess to another….. 🙂