This is my go too dress. I can wear this dress everyday. You can throw it on without a bra and roll out.
Hello Tanya,
This is me Missy B from Paris. I am coming to you again because i am having a real problem that i would like to talk to you about. Since i consider you as my role model and a wise person even if i do not know a lot about you, i just feel like you are a good person and who will help me with this situation.
It has been a year since i was in that relationship with that guy. ( i know you are not doctor love). The connection between the two of us is so intense. We are really close. I am myself around him and i don’t care about have make up on or not in front of him. He makes me a better person. I have never been so close to someone. We are already talking about life together, marriage, house, kids and everything. I love his personality that is the thing that i love about him the most the thing that attracted me on the first place. That kind of personality from a guy is what i have always wanted. I know he loves me to death. But I don’t have a real physical attractiveness for him. He looks cute but i am not sexually attracted to him. We had sexual relations before and it was great but when i looked at him i am not physically attracted. I know that the physic doesn’t mean much but i don’t now what to do.
I told him yesterday that we are going to have a break then i can think about if i really love him or if he is just a friend for me.
And now i do not know what to do because i can’t decide. I just want to have your point of view based on what i just told you. I am really confused. I am thinking about fasting to get more answer to ask God to help me see things better because i don’t want to regret loosing that guy. And i think that staying with him despite my confusion would be unfair to him.
Thank you for taking your precious time to read this.
I am sorry for the mistakes I am french.
Best regards,
Missy B
Hello Missy B,
You asked the right person. I’m the one that gives all my friends advice about relationships. I think that you should fall in love with the way a person treats you. He seems to be the perfect guy so you shouldn’t let his looks deter weather you should take it to the next level. I’m gonna put it to you like this(hypothetical question) if you found out that he started dating another women because you wanted a break and you found out it was some beautiful gal would you want him to yourself then. I’m always that girl that falls in love with someone for their heart. I dated a guy same scenario and when I started dating him everyone wanted him. Does he have a nice swag to him? Does he dress nice? Is he clean cut? These are the things that seal the deal if he’s not that attractive to you and weigh the pros and cons. I personally think you’d be making a huge mistake if you let him go. Would you rather have a fine jerk that cheats on you and has no moral values, integrity or a kind considerate person that you can be yourself around. Think about it.:).
Niceee love the advice. But I love your hair sooo much im really thinking of letting my black grow out and see what my natural color is again. But im sooo attatched to the black. Anyhoo love you mucho ttys
Wow…I do know where she is coming from. As a woman we need to always think for the future. If you’re not ready to be married then fun cute guys are the best, they make the best stories for your girlfriends. Now if you are ready to be married the man you should choose would be the one that can love you unconditionally, have your best interest at heart, want to see you better yourself, CAN and will support the family always because he knows his family is the most important thing in this world. He keeps his heart and body for you, takes you to little getaways and makes you feel like there is no other woman that compares to you. Once you get over Mr. cute guy get under Mr. Future husband. Don’t forget Mr. Perfect body will get old too he is not gonna look good forever.
Tanya that dress is soo cute looks so great with that background too.
First of all, Tanya you look perfectly delightful. I can see why that dress it your go to dress. It does look fab on you! Also love your hair. So shiny and bouncy! *heart*
And about the advice I am 100% on board with you. You have to think long term. Good heart goes for a longer time than the good body or sexual attraction! 🙂
love your go too dress… it does look ready for any day/ any time/ any event… read about you in tanvi's blog. and love how you said that the title of a book about you should be the "The Go- To Girl" :)))
you are such a beautiful spirit! that and your fashion sense….simply amazing. thanks for responding to me and i'll be looking forward to your future posts.
Tanya, you really gave the girl good advice. It is so easy to be physically attracted to someone. I mean, really – that aspect is overrated. Personally, my top requirement is intelligence. I love a smart man. And courage, and compassion. And like you said; clean cut, swag (confidence), can seal the deal. And the older I get, the less sex is about huffing n puffing, than it is about intimacy and respect. So in the long run, I think you should keep him because no other guy, no matter how "cute" will measure up to him as a person (based on the highly respectful and complimentary way you talk about him).
Niceee love the advice. But I love your hair sooo much im really thinking of letting my black grow out and see what my natural color is again. But im sooo attatched to the black. Anyhoo love you mucho ttys
Oh and I still want one of those Jades braceletts your going to have to take me so I can get one
Wow…I do know where she is coming from. As a woman we need to always think for the future. If you’re not ready to be married then fun cute guys are the best, they make the best stories for your girlfriends. Now if you are ready to be married the man you should choose would be the one that can love you unconditionally, have your best interest at heart, want to see you better yourself, CAN and will support the family always because he knows his family is the most important thing in this world. He keeps his heart and body for you, takes you to little getaways and makes you feel like there is no other woman that compares to you. Once you get over Mr. cute guy get under Mr. Future husband. Don’t forget Mr. Perfect body will get old too he is not gonna look good forever.
Tanya that dress is soo cute looks so great with that background too.
Keep up the advice for your readers.
First of all, Tanya you look perfectly delightful. I can see why that dress it your go to dress. It does look fab on you! Also love your hair. So shiny and bouncy! *heart*
And about the advice I am 100% on board with you. You have to think long term. Good heart goes for a longer time than the good body or sexual attraction! 🙂
Sweet!!
Great dress! Ahhh amore! lol have a great weekend doll 😉 xoxo
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Wow! Love your Chanel bag. You look fabulous!!!
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the advice column is a great addition to your already fabulous blog 🙂
the buttons on the back of that dress are such a nice little treat.
Great Advice Pumpkin and Great Dress! Love the lace and buttons on the back they complete the dress! Good luck on the Advice Column…Smooches
You look so gorgeous, darling!
Love that dress!
xoxox,
CC
Well said!! Love the dress and the advice.
Beautiful dress. Bomb bag. It will be a surgical procedure before I wear anything without a bra, lol. But you look great. Keep doing it!
Nice message you are definetly the go to girl when it comes to relationships and needed advice!!!
love your go too dress… it does look ready for any day/ any time/ any event… read about you in tanvi's blog. and love how you said that the title of a book about you should be the "The Go- To Girl" :)))
you are such a beautiful spirit! that and your fashion sense….simply amazing. thanks for responding to me and i'll be looking forward to your future posts.
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Tanya, you really gave the girl good advice. It is so easy to be physically attracted to someone. I mean, really – that aspect is overrated. Personally, my top requirement is intelligence. I love a smart man. And courage, and compassion. And like you said; clean cut, swag (confidence), can seal the deal. And the older I get, the less sex is about huffing n puffing, than it is about intimacy and respect. So in the long run, I think you should keep him because no other guy, no matter how "cute" will measure up to him as a person (based on the highly respectful and complimentary way you talk about him).