Meek is not week

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Meek does not mean weak. I use to always think the only way to defend myself or get a point across was to get feisty or raise my voice. You can say things nicely and get your point across. Ever heard of the phrase  “you catch more bees with honey”. It’s true!When someone gets smart with you and you simply can’t Ignore them stop, think and say whatever it is that you have to say in a  really sweet manner;). That’s the end of it. One of my best friends is the master of this. How can you get mad at someone that expresses themselves in a kind way.

Tip of the day: Be nice! Communicate nicely!

meekmeekmeekWearing: H&M jacket and skirt, Burburry boots.

Wanted to let my eldest daughter know how proud of her I am! She has almost all A’s and studies really hard. I love you baby and I’m proud of you.:)

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31 thoughts on “It’s not what you say but how you say it!

  1. Love the outfit, those boots are pure fire!!! I think I saw that skirt in my local hm but they only had black. I prefer your green. The message is also on point. My temper knows no bounds and I have to reel myself in before I choke someone out, lol. Inspirational as always. Love it, Thanks T.

  2. I love your post today!!

    This is the truth. Your post reminds me of another saying, "They will know we are Christians by our love…" How we treat one another the way we respect each others opinion and even disagree in LOVE. It’s not the message that offends people most of the time, it’s the delivery.

    Your outfit is darling! Those boots remind of a pair I have been eyeing on River Island

    I think yours are much cuter so I might have to keep looking… They resemble the Prorsum Burberry Aviator Booties: http://www.net-a-porter.com/product/81122

    You always look beautiful, classy, and perfectly put together.
    Have a great week!!! 🙂

  3. HI SISTER

    HEY LOVE THE OUTFIT. ARE THOSE THE BOOTS YOU HAD THE PICTURE IN YOUR PHONE FROM FRIDAY? THOSE ARE HOT I LOVE THEM I MAY HAVE TO SAVE AND GET ME SOME LOL. OH YOUR SIS WAS LOOKING NICE FOR THE PARTY I GOTTA SEND YOU THE PICTURES.

    LOVE YOU MUCHO

    PORSCHE

  4. I will take your advice. I let people know when they frustrate me and that in turn only frustrates me more….long after its over. Its not worth it. It only hurts my stress-free life I am trying to live.
    Thanks. Needed that.

    I love your look today. The boots are soo nice.
    You look gorgeous.

    Have a blessed day/week.
    TCD

  5. Love Love your boots. Absolutely drool worthy. Just a good advice but so hard to follow. i just loose my cool when I am angry or provoked. It is hard to stay in element. If and when I do I feel so much more in command of the situation! 🙂

  6. I am loving the entrie outfit – You look amazing as always! Congratulations to your daughter – she has a wonderful role model. God Bless

  7. I'm cheeesing I love that fit and theose boots are amazing. Can I just say that those boots on every magazine in town absolutely AMAZING!!!! ;0

  8. Honey! That little jacket is so cute! ..and I don't even have to mention the boots! We've already discussed that! However, I love the message for this post…so true..I have been practicing that myself with my daughter, and with people in general. No one hears you when your yelling…

  9. I've been so out of the loop in the blogging world. Playing catching up.

    I love your post and your outfit! What you say is so true. I really wish more people take the time to think before they say hurtful things in a hurtful manner.

    P.S. I am seriously drooling over your boots…

  10. Your boots are fierce! Your entire look is flawless:-). I am one those persons who communicate sweetly. I'm very slow to anger, but when i get there, it's really bad, so i try to never go to that place:-). Great post!

  11. Its been a minute since Ive given my girl sum luv on Major Must Havs! Of Course, as always, I love the outfit from head to toe! The Boots are Ridiculous. I need another job to keep up with your shoe Fetish, LOL. Looking good Pumpkin 🙂 Smooches!

  12. Love this look, you know I had to feature it under Looks of the Week. I am definitely looking forward to your hair tutorials,

  13. You look absolutely STUNNING! love the outfit and you have amazing legs…Rock them girl! Gisela is always telling me I should show off my legs at all times, but I get pretty shy 🙁 Btw, I wish I can help you organize your closet too, I love doing all that stuff! Anyways, besotes from NY

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