Treasures to live your life by:
1) Smile from the inside.
2) Don’t be fake.
3) Always have a pure heart
4) Think good thoughts.
5) If u don’t have anything nice to say…keep quiet
I’ve learned through my years that you can hurt someones feelings, so if there is someone talking in a way that is negative or disrespectful, keep your mouth shut OR you can be like me and let them know it’s not nice. Sometimes we have to step in and help those close to us redirect their focus. It takes practice to live your life from a positive perspective. Human nature can certainly lead us astray. But, life is not a Michael Jackson song. We need to do what’s right at all costs because if we don’t we are the first to suffer for it and next is those around us.
Another thing I’ve learned over the years is NOT to get caught up in random gossip because at the end of the day even if you said one word you said it all. I’m so over gossip. When I’m with my my best friend it’s fun to have secret girl talk, but we never talk about someones appearance or something that someone can’t change. You might think I’m crazy but I really see beauty in everyone as we all should. Please never call someone ugly unless they’ve earned the title by who they are on the inside. And even still, it is not our right to judge. Just take notes and learn. Beauty is only skin deep after all. It’s really about what’s going on on the inside.
Tip of the day: Let someone know when they are wrong; you might change their outlook on life.
H&M Trench Coat, Random top, Spanx reversable leggings, Burberry boots.
Thrifted Sweater, hudson jeans, LV Bag, CL heels.
I want that sweater it so cute and my swag
Thanks for sharing Tanya! Love it!
Love love love the message…I'm a work in progress, thanks fo the reminder.
Girl talk is the best and yes ugly people do earn their title. u look great
I've learned this the hard way. Life definitely can lead you in areas that are out of your character like gossip. But being I hate to hurt anyone's feelings, I'm over the gossiping. It's so not worth anyone being hurt…Great post and I LOVE the thrifted sweater!
BOMB coat. Beautiful sweater!!!! I luv that sweater. And…of course, nothing has changed, you're still looking fabo.
Really great message that many people should read. Also, I love that sweater.
Love the sweater!!!
Every post you create never fail to amaze me. There is always a great message at hand.
Now for the outfits…love love love them! I so want your Burberry boots.
OMG SIS I JUST LEARNED SO MUCH FROM READING YOUR MESSAGE…U ARE ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL I LUV BOTH OUTFITS REALLY CUTE……:)
Always love to hear what you have to say. Love the coat and the sweater.
Hi tanya I m reading your blog for quite a while now and jus loving it.. I specially love the shoes.. and regarding hurting anyone with my gossips.. well at times I just can't stop myself from bitching about others with my close friends and later feel guilty about it …
I love the message in your post as well as the outfits.
I am going to live in leggings/jeggings/anything stretchy on the weekends over the next few months.
So very true love this post Alot of people need to listen to this and I think I need to raid ur closet I love everything
Not surprisingly, I love both outfits in this post. Pink and black always looks good together and I love the colors in the white top with some comfortable jeans. Great advice pumpkin! Smooches
I couldn't agree with you more. So correct [as always!] Love your both books … and the shoes *droool*
Love love the trench coat
Love these looks and your treasures to live by too!
xoxox,
CC
love a classic black & white look.
You are zoo right. Only bad things happen when gossip rears it's ugly head.
Love the coat. We don't have an H&M in the part of FL i live so when my sister and I go to Philly we always stop in,
They always have the such cute stuff.
Blessings,
TCD
my fav heels of yours you had to have an eye to pick up the bomb sweater (c)
really love ur outfit its nice to see some color in the winter .
This may be a silly question is "thrifted" a brand ?