Don’t ever let anyone put you down in reference to the previous things that happened in your life long ago. If you didn’t have a past, then you wouldn’t come through to be the person that you are, furthermore they don’t know your story and even if they do, ignore them. When someone tries to condemn you, embrace it (thank your past), be proud of who you’ve become. Everyone has skeleton’s, so no one should ever judge. They’re really just trying to take the focus off of themselves.
In addition to my theory, don’t let foolishness occupy your time. If you don’t have anything constructive to do, read a book, figure out a way to start a business, go to the gym or maybe you just need to pray. The world at times can get caught up in so many frivolous things so try and use your time sagaciously. I try to use my time wisely. I have no time to worry with the respect to anyone’s business or what they have going on (being noisy) seeing that my life has substance.
As I’ve said many times, no matter what anyone sees about you they don’t hold your future in their hands so brush it off. God is who I strive to please (he doesn’t take notes of the bad, he forgives and forgets) as we all should…
Tip of the day: “There’s a crack in everything, that’s how the light gets in”…
Wearing: H&M blouse, F21 skirt, Elizabeth and James blazer (I’ve been wearing it everyday), Marc Jacob heels.
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I say it all the time if we focused on positive things we could get further in life. If you research where diamonds come from you would be amazed that they are not pretty from the beginning. It takes alot to make them shine. So shine diamond you've been through alot to get here. Ladies, know who you are and don't let them tell you who you are.
I just discovered your blog this evening, and I sat here and read the entire thing! I'm a California girl who hasn't lived in LA in 11 years but I recently quit my job and I'm moving back in May. I don't have a job yet and I'm feeling overwhelmed with my decision, but I'm going on faith and the love and support of my family. Discovering your blog with your beautiful energy and spirit (not to mention shoes!) was just the boost I needed tonight. Thanks for sharing such a positive spirit in this virtual world. You're inspiring.
Gorgeous post, darling!
Love your bag and shoes!
xoxox,
CC
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WOW, this is right on time!!!!!! Folks need to worry about they own business before they start snooping around in other folks yard! Love the color of that blazer…. Cute look
Beautiful skirt and blazer. So true what you are saying.
I am probably one of the few people who appreciate my past. I love the good, the bad and the ugly. It's not that I love the things that I used to do, or the person I used to be… I love seeing the person I am now and where God has brought me from. I thank God for his grace and mercy. It is so important never to judge and to always remember that “we all have sinned and come short of then glory of God."
This is a beautiful post. Thank you for continuing to be a light in the darkness, and always writing with sincerity.
Love,
Grace
I really like this outfit very sophisticated….love that blazer now I will be on the hunt lmao!!!! You a very right when you say "If you didn't have a past, then you wouldn't come through to be the person that you are"…when you go through things it gives you character and makes you a stronger person. GOD is the only person that can judge me and you are very right he is a forgiving GOD! 🙂
People always look for the negative because its easier to tear down than to build.
Great words as usual Tanya!
Love the message in your post. So many people forget that they have to live for themselves first.
Love your spring infused out. The shoes are awesome.
Also, thank you soooooooo much for the lovely birthday wishes. I owe you a mail!!! 🙂
So true and inspirational
I'd have to agree with u 100%. That was a great message. Again, well said.
You look beautiful. You go girl! Love you
You literally are always right on time with messages for my life.
Stay blessed XX
Loving Your Shoe Game!!
I absolutely love your tip of the day!!!!! Your oufit is great; love the shoes!
adorable skirt!
did you get the skirt this season from f21? i love it. i love this entire look on you
How do you get your gams/legs to look so hot!?
Blessings!