I see more and more everyday how people are users. People will suck you dry if you let them. I’ve never been a user. I can’t see myself wanting to intentionally take advantage of anyone thinking I’m getting ahead.
The things that I do for others, I do it from the heart. I don’t do it for any type of recognition or for a pat on the back. In my life experiences I’ve seen where people do things for others and they throw it in the person’s face, but if it’s from your heart it should never be brought up even if we feel some ungrateful people need reminding.
All I’m simply saying is when you do things do it from the heart and if someone does something nice for you don’t forget them. They didn’t have to do it!
Tip of the day: God will bestow his blessings upon you, but not what you do for others but what you do for him through him….
Wearing: Zara blouse, Milly skirt, Dior heels, Giuseppe Zanotti platforms. Check back Friday:)
You look absolutely STUNNING!!! I LOVE the colors and everything about this outfit. This is a great look for the spring or summer wardrobe.
Thank you those words. I needed to hear that today b/c I have been puzzled this week by those that I see as possibly unappeciative users and your post made me feel more clarity. Have a great day and thanks for the lovely outfit ideas!
By the way, I am feeling your message for the day, you have a good point. 🙂
OMG, I love that shirt!!! It's amazing how you put things together that!
aww your so beautiful. Love everything.
I can admit to being on both sides of this. I've thrown up something I've done for others before. And I've had the attitude that I didn't ask them to do such and such for me. Growth is a beautiful thing!
Fabulous look!
OMG you look stunning in this outfit, great great choice of colors, you did it very well…this skirt is so hot..
And you're so right, I did things for others but when I see the way these people treated me I always want to throw it on their face, not for any recognition but because they are so ungrateful!
It's hard but I have to rely on God.
I concur. I never try to use others because I don't want others trying to use me. I have a kind heart and I've learned that some people will try to take advantage of that fact. But I won't let those that take advantage change me. It makes me unique and special to be able to maintain and possess a kind heart living in this world full of chaos. The outfit is simply beautiful! The shoes and the purse are a great match combined with the skirt. The green top completes the outfit. You're representing a sun flower. Big, bold and beautiful!
Love the blog post and scripture. Yes you're right that people are users and takers. There is such a sense of me and min or what you can do for me. It is hard for a person who is a giver by nature not to give, but you have to learn that you can't aways do it, or you'll have nothing else to give because it is used up.
Love the outfit as usual. Take care!
I feel such a great satisfaction when I do things out of the goodness of my heart. Not to be seen by other people, not to receive praise or recognition, but because it was what God put on my heart to do.
I try my best to be thankful for the big things as well as the small. As you said, "they didn’t have to do it." But the thought and spirit behind the gesture whether big or small is what makes the difference.
Great outfit today! I love your shoes and your bag together.
Be blessed!
-Grace
You are so beautiful Tanya, inside-out. Love the outfit of course but love the message even more … We have a similar saying in India – When you do something for others, do it and forget it. Like it never happened. It is only then that the honesty of your action is realized! Wish there were more people like that! Like YOU! 🙂
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I believe the same thing. Anytime someone throws what they've done for you in your face, it proves they didn't do it with a pure heart. Love, love, love this message! And you look pretty, as always 🙂
Hey Tanya,
Hope my response to your email didn't contribute to your feelings in this post. I will never forget how you helped me yesterday. And not just yesterday but every time you post your fabulous outfits and write those inspiring words of wisdom. You are a very beautiful woman. May God bless you and yours. Thanks again for all your help. Keep doing what you do. No one does it like you! Your an inspiration to all!
I absolutely love your outfit! As always your message is perfectly on time for me 🙂
LOVE your outfit!! Very cute look! 🙂
great message I would love to raid your closet along with Kimora Lee Simmons'!
cute skirt. looks vintage…straight out of the 70's 🙂
I have to admit, I have reminded a few people of what I've helped them out with or whatever. I would hate when they come up to me and say I've never done anything to help them out. That would drive me crazy so I would bring up incidents in which I've actually helped them out. Then they'll say to that I'm bringing up 'old' stuff. I'm like what?!
Anyway,
Tanya, you look absolutely gorgeous! You are always perfection. Your hair is pretty, that blouse is pretty and that skirt is too freakin cute!
Cute combination the colors are amazing and you look FABULOUS! It's more blessed to give then it is to receive! 🙂
stunning! i'm in awe.
Great message! You look A-M-A-Z-I-N-G and your hair is absolutely beautiful
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Love the posting. I hate when someone is using a person, it saddens me that ppl expect or want something from someone. What happened to doing things out of the kindness of your heart and the person be thankful for whatever it is that you did.
I love the outfit, the colors pop and the bag is to die for.
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Fabulous!!! Beautiful!! I love this and all is soooo true!! Keep it coming Tanya!
Yes, unfortunately I'm seeing this more and more often! It's funny how people will try to use you as if I'm not smart enough to recognize what their doing!
Now on to this outfit, seriously…let me have it! I love it…lmao!
this is reaaaally pretty!
I love that blouse! The whole look is very grown and classy.
You look great. I luv those colors!