eyes

They say the eyes are the windows to the soul. 

Looking at a person acknowledges them and shows that you are interested in what they are saying, especially if you look in their eyes. Making eye contact not one only let’s the person you’re communicating with know that you’re sincere and confident in what you’re saying, but it also let’s them know what they are saying has significance. In any situation you should make eye contact with the person you are speaking to.

  When a person makes very little eye contact, they may be feeling insecure, shy, or intimidated. Looking down or away may feel safer because it allows them to hide behind their eyes, or it can be something simple, they just don’t want to look the person in their eyes.

When someone doesn’t look me in my eyes when I’m speaking to them (at the bank, the grocery store etc.) I never try to make them uncomfortable. I smile and try and make things as easy as possible. They might have went through something in their life that causes them to feel uncomfortable around others.

Never let anyone intimidate you. Know who you are and be secure within yourself to let others feel it by looking them in their eyes.

Tip of the day: “When you learn, teach, when you get, give.” Maya Angelo

eyeseyeseyesWearing: Forever 21 skirt, Fredrick of Hollywood Lace Motorcycle Lace Jacket, Emilio Pucci Heels.

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27 thoughts on “I can handle you…

  1. Wow I'm blown away the whole outfit is so sexy! And you are such an inspiration to me I need a friend like you!! Also, please share your workout/health regimen!
    Love from Kenya!!

  2. You never seem to amaze me. Always such positive and inspiring messages. You are wearing that skirt, Miss Thang!! LOL… I also LOVE those heels…fabulous

  3. I Love this Tanya – keep the messages coming. I'm always posting on my facebook wall. I can't wait to see you & Sabrina in June with I come to Cali. Enjoy your day Beautiful. Keep the positive energy flowing.

  4. What a great message. Preach. I know that I always hate looking people in the eye and I know it's because I suffer from low self-esteem. I'll take your advice and try to make things easier if someone doesn't want to look me in the eye. People aren't looking you in the eye because they're probably intimidated by your beauty. Love the outfit, need the specs on the bag.

  5. Hi there,

    I just wanted to tell you that I visit your site everyday and I just love it. You are so inspirational and honest… and of course, beautiful!

    You are rocking this outfit! LoveLOVE the shoes… you have such great style…

    Keep doing your thing girl…

    Coco

  6. I love that you find amazing clothes anywhere. You just know what works for you, and you were it effortlessly.

    I'm dying over your shoes right now!

    Have a wonderful weekend!
    -Grace

  7. Maya Angelou – such an amazing and wise woman!! amazing quote, it's motivated me today and helped me make a very difficult decision that truly should have been easy.

    i love your outfit, the heels…gorgeous!!! and i love your hair! it's one of my preferred hairstyles for myself 🙂

    hope you had an AMAZING MOTHERS DAY!!!! God bless you and your family!