It’s important to reorganize when you are growing. It’s suppose to be a happy time but not always because as you’re growing you have to leave some people behind. As we grow we have to not allow ourselves to get distracted by the minute challenges that come our way. I’ve had a lot of  great experiences in my life and others look in with admiration sometimes envy, but they also don’t want the problems that come with my life and probably couldn’t last one week in my shoes.

I know a lot of you don’t know me personally, so allow me to  let you in fo a sec, I’m COMPASSIONATE and STRONG. I have sincere love for people. I crave to teach others from my past mistakes.

I wish I had a mentor growing up to show me a peak into life’s challenges before I face them for myself.  Of course I had my mother and I thank her for the way she has raised me, but it’s nothing like a mentor, someone older than you, a sincere person that has your best interest at heart that you can talk to about anything. I personally never had someone like this in my life. Sometimes others don’t want to share their life with you due to being hurt in the past. That’s why I  what I do when I can. I fervently want everyone to be their best and I have no fear of them far surpassing goals bigger than they’ve imagined.

Remember there’s a gift and a curse that comes with everything. What I’m strive for everyday is to be at peace with the present, acknowledging that I’m blessed, not wanting anything but knowing I’ve never taken anyone or anything for granted… especially appreciating the small things.

Inner peace is a beautiful thing and takes work. Have a great week everyone…

 

 

It’s gloomy in Cali this week…

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29 thoughts on “When I’m off track B is keeping me focus…

  1. I miss LA (June gloom and all!), although I am getting used to my new home here in Atlanta. It is HOT as hell out here. Lol.

    Anyway, you always have little tidbits of wisdom. I love it!

    p.s. my major must have is that waist! Sheesh! Lol

  2. tip of the day:

    God only puts us through as much as we can handle, So the people who struggle the most, have been chosen by God to be the strongest ones.

    you're awesome T. your ongoing positivity is surely a breath of fresh air

  3. You always look so vivacious… The cargo pants and the jacket go so well together… I love the spirit you project through your pictures! Keep doing what you do…

  4. Thank you for todays post. It is something I've been dealing with for the past couple of days (growing and having to leave some people behind) reading your post gave me the confirmation that I needed. Thank you!

  5. You look gorgeous, love the top especially!

    Thank you for the message. As for a tip to give…..ummmm….well my mom always told me whenever things get tough, just know someone's situation is worse. Thank God in advance for bringing you through your trial.

  6. Lovely words Tanya! You look beautiful. Sabrina will be in touch about us getting together. I'll be there on the 22nd – 27th. I'm getting Excited! Have A great day!

  7. "To give truth to him who loves it not is to only give him more multiplied reasons for misinterpretation." — George McDonald " – The Curate's Awakening

    From: Ravi Zacharias: Is Jesus the Only Way (part 1 of 3) rzim.org

    😀

  8. You look stunning. And i tellyou this all the time but your my role model I look up to alot.

    I love you big sis.

  9. Here is my tip of the day for you:
    Never second guess yourself…its the quickest way you can destroy yourself. Never let anyone make you feel as if you should or vice verse. Believe in who you know you are.

    You have no idea how since I came across your blog last week how your words have helped me. Thanks for following me on twitter!

  10. I agree having a mentor is so postive. As always the fashion is bomb.com. PS:

    I don't know if you recall this or not but you sent me some skincare info. I followed it and it's been a few weeks but I have had so many women of all ethnicities comment on my glow :), including questions on whether I was pregnant. Which I am absolutely not, just this routine that is working. Thanks Bunches!

    My Tip of the day: Believe in yourself and others!

  11. Tip of the Day: Don't ever change! And keep loving and taking care of yourself! Cuz if you don't no one else will.

  12. Preach mama T…. Such great words of wisdom! I love that top it's so sexy and very different.

  13. You are such a good person. This blog can really help a lot of people get through difficult times.

  14. you look amazing…absolutely love this outfit

    God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them. xx

  15. Looking Fly!!!! Although you are a few years younger than me, you are like a big sister to me. Tip of the day: Never focus on negativity because it will drain your energy. Switch focus and direct your energy toward things that will bring you happiness and inner peace.

  16. Great Advice pumpkin! I think mentors are great to have as they can help guide you and teach you from their experience. I didn't have a mentor either growing up however I think those who have learned on their own are great people to get advice from as they have "been there and done that" and can speak from experience! Great outfit too, lol. Smooches

  17. So true! Some people come into your life for only a season. I'm blessed to have you in my life for a LIFETIME! You are an inspiration to so many! Never change who you are. Love the look & LOVING those curls even more!!!

  18. Excellent post! I feel the same way. Thank you! Very inspirational. Tip of the day: No good deed is wasted. Continue to be a blessing!