Don’t let temporary circumstances determine your rash decisions. When the tough gets tougher, to get through, it takes prayer, patience, positive thoughts and eventually you’ll see the light at the end o the tunnel.
I know some single people that are unhappy because they are single and I know some married people that are unhappy because they are married. The problem is a lot of people don’t know how to direct their (focus) energy. I’m not saying you can predict your future but you can think and speak things into existence, so don’t let anyone have the power over your happiness. Example: If you are married as well as having problems I think you should pray for your relationship, especially if you are in love with your husband and you know in your heart he’s a good person. Nothing is perfect and we have to choose our battles. On the filp side maybe you might have to remove yourself from the situation to clear your mind for a bit. It’s important YOU determine whatever YOU decide (after prayer) is best for YOU. Stop forgetting how powerful God is. He can fix ANYTHING!
If you are single, no need to date every guy that asks you out, sometimes you need to be still. Learn to enjoy your own company and be happy with yourself. This time is necessary to be on the inside looking out at other relationships so you can determine what’s really right for you. God is amazing and if a husband is what you want evaluate yourself first, be patient and write down all the things you want in a man and put it in your bible. You have to know what you want and be willing to teach someone some of your wants at times, but the reward will be priceless once you’ve waited on Him for the man of your dreams.
Never look at someone’s situation and say I wish I wish I wish, because when it’s your turn you’ll want everyone to be happy for you. So while waiting patiently never be a bitter woman because you are unhappy. Smile no matter what. Don’t let the devil steal your joy, because let’s face it that’s the only “thing” that’s happy when you are walking around acting evil.
In closing know that you are where you are suppose to be at this very moment. Make the best of it by putting your positive thoughts into play so that all your dreams can come true. Life isn’t always a dream, but it’s the moments that come together creating the dream, which causes bad stuff to be so minute. π
Tip of the day: “Look for the positive in every situation and pray for the negative” Tanya
Wearing: Gucci Heels, Marc Jacob Bag, Leifsdottir Dress.
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Gorgeous look, darling!
Love that dress!
And your hair looks amazing!
xoxox,
CC
Very inspiring message! Being a single woman, I often wonder when will my time come or will it ever come? This message serves as a reminder that everything happens on HIS time – not a minute too soon! Be still! Positive words! I often feel lost when I don't have something going on. I'm slowly learning to enjoy the down time and focus my energy on my "goals" when I have these moments to spare. "Be still"… Powerful message Tanya!
And of course, I don't need to say this, but you look AMAZING! I love the patterns and colors you have been choosing lately!
Gorgeous! Love the heels!
Prissy
BAM! You hit a home run with that one Tanya. Bravooo! You made so many valid points. There's nothing left to say. Just perfect. I'm gonna print this out and put it in my journal.
Oh and u look great… as usual. Very sexy π
Looking like a Diva in these pictures!!! Hair looks gorgeous … and of course you dress impeccable head to toe always!
I agree about not making rash decisions. So important to keep your head clear and think straight … else one bad decision can change the course of one's whole life!!1
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LOVE the post, the look,and I love your hair like that!!
My Girl Tanya!!! You look FABULOUS! Loving the message – keep them coming!
Lovely look & message!
I know it takes a lot of work but I would love some tips on how to achieve this hairstyle..love it!!
Everything you said is spot on. I just love your posts, they are so positive and uplifting. You have a great spirit and you're gorgeous!!! People don't always expect the two to go hand in hand but you're proving them wrong, chica. π
I love the outfit and your curly hair looks beautiful!
Great words of encouragement!
Gorgeous everything!
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Wonderful words of wisdom, I learned that discouragement is only a trick of the enemy, we have to encourage ourselves & in your case others as well, absolutely love your outfit & hair. Keep doing what you are meant to do!!! Love, lina71;)
Love this outfit (as usual lol). Shoes are my fave π
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Very inspiring. Sometimes the things we NEED to hear is hard to deal with but like you said thinking positive and letting God handle everything will put us in a great place
Girl you are working that dress!! You look great!!
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Love the colors!
Love that color of your bag
love this look!
Such an on time message!!!!! and Im feelin your hair in curls! π cute!
I absolutely love your blog, you are definitely one of favorite bloggersβ¦you speak to me on every situation about my life at the right time.
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Thank you for the on time message and letting Him use you!! You look fabulous. The combination of style and inspiration is why your blog is my favorite. I also enjoy seeing another married mom of color doing her thang π Have a great day!
You are showing off! Love it!
I love the abstract print in the dress, The heels are Fierce! The hair is pretty also!
I was sent here today to read this word! It is amazing how God works! Love the dress by the way! Thank you for keeping us grounded!
You are just darling. The outfits always complement the words of wisdom so gracefully. I LOVE that dress and the bag…just fab.
You look so pretty! Love the bag and the heels! Your words are always so touching!
great advice wise woman! killer dress! killer hair!
Tanya, OMG! Every time I go on your blog. I promise I feel like you entry is pertaining to me in sone kind of way. You are so positive and spiritual and that's why you are blessed. Thanks for all the inspiration!!! Sometimes when I am having a bad day, I go through your blog pages, read them and after reading them I feel a lot better.
I am glad you posted this dress bc it reminded me to head to the store to see if it was on sale. It was!
I read this post everyday since you put it up. I needed to hear this message. I'm a single mom who is doing it all alone. This post moved me beyond belief. Thank You so much. Please keep it up! I see you aren't putting up as much info on your outfits and I'm sure you have good reason but don't let the haters spoil it for the rest of us. Every time I go somewhere I look to your blog for fashion inspiration and words of wisdom.
Absolutely lovely message. I can't even say much more because you hit the nail on the head…and all the other comments before have summed it all up. I love you blog.
Blessings. xx
PS…You look radiant. Love the look.
I just posted this on my facebook wall" Don't let the devil steal your joy, because let's face it that's the only "thing" that's happy when you are walking around acting evil
Thank you
Your post really hit home! So needed to read your message…I am learning day by day to be still, listen to his voice and be obedient.
Your outfit is amazing too. Loving the colors, the style of the dress, your shoes and clutch.
Love warms more than a thousand fires.
Within you I lose myself, without you I find myself wanting to be lost again.