Relationships
Relationships can be tough sometimes and you won’t always agree on everything, but once you have a mutual respect for one another and the good outweighs the bad you are winning. Sometimes my husband can do things that drives me crazy (I’m sure I drive him crazy as well), but ultimately I know that I’m in love with him and he’s the guy God made just for me.
Guys think differently from women and sometimes their sensitivity level is zero so it’s our job to make sure that we communicate the things that bother us, but not in a nagging way. Men tend to get turned off when we complain so try to pick a calm time when the two of you are relaxing to discuss the things that bother you about one another. If you are both in love with each other it’s always worth working it out.
Tip of the day: It’s always great in the beginning but can you withstand the test of time…
Wearing: Zara Coat, H&M Shirt, Seven Jeans, Chinese Laundry Boots.
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So true. I have to constantly remind myself not to wait for my husband to step up and volunteer, if I need or want something , I need to open my mouth and say it!
ONLY YOU can make a simple plaid shirt look so cute! You are living proof that the clothes never make you, you make the clothes!! If I wore something like that I would probably look like I was "farmer john" LOL!! I don't know I may be daring and try wearing my plaid shirt when I am just our running errands and see how it works out, you inspire me to try so many things and usually they do work!! I honestly must say I have worn many items I had previously considered throwing out since I started following your blog. Thanks so much for sharing with us!! You provide such great fashion advice and wisdom to all of us. You are very special and really appreciated!!
Cute outfit! Love those boots!
I agree. You have to make sure you're communicating your wants and desires. Don't think for a second that if he loves you that he should know. Men are NOT clairvoyant.
completely agree with what you said. if you love each other enough you'll always try to work out the tiny pesky problems. p.s. love your hair!
Looking like a rockstar!!! Love those boots! 🙂
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I am loving the whole look, especially the leather coat. I agree with you communication is key in a relationship, as well as what you said in your tip of the day, "it's always great in the beginning" but humhum after…
I guess it depends on how the couple view the relationship. The reason I say this is because my husband and I went out to eat this past weekend and ran into a friend of ours that we've known for years he and his wife were just married a few years ago he turns to his wife and was like "bay ask them how long they've been married" and my husband and I looked at each other all confused (yeah, we're terrible with keeping track….lol) and after a few calculations and counting on our fingers we were like "16 years" and bust out laughing. My point is although we've been together for a while we don't look at it as "time served", or geesh we've been toghether too long. I guess we're lucky that time escapes us and we still enjoy each other as if it were still the beginning now don't get me wrong there are times when I want to strangle the mess outta him, but for the most part I can't complain he's still my big head;) You look fab, love the plaid and leather!!
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Hi gorgeous!
Love the plaid!
xoxox,
CC
Cute! Anything worth having is worth fighting for. You just need to know when to pick your battles.
Be blessed!
Tanya you are so effortlessly cool and chic and most of all you have such a giving spirit. You and your blog are awesome!!!
xoxo
Tanya,
Love your boots. Can you tell me what style they are from Chinese Laundry? Thanks
Words of wisdom preach sister preach!!!! 🙂
1. Cute fit. I love the motorcycle jacket. I need one desperately. one of these days I will get one hopefully. Um…I also need the details on that bad please ma'am!
2. You ain't NEVER lied about standing the test of time. I am a newlywed and my husband has started working my nerves more and more. 🙂 I love him dearly but sometimes I just do not GET how the male mind works! ARGH!
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So very very true!!! Love this look, casual yet so chic!
Hello cutie pie! We rarely see you in flats, so its refreshing when you break them out 🙂
Amazing message in this post!
cute and simple…i like!
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Cute Jacket
I love how you put simple basics together and look so hot!!! Happy Holidays
Biker chic! Respect is indeed the key – can't be calling your partner out their names and not considering their importance in the relationship. 17 years and 10 years of marriage and that has made all the difference for us. Being in love is all that and a bag of chips- broken chips and all! 🙂
Love Love the over the knee boots!!! You look so chic.
Happy Holidays,
Ashley
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Super Cute! My kind of look!
Roni