friendsFor the past couple of years I’ve been avoiding going out with groups of women because sometimes I feel that women are catty, furthermore I’d rather be at home relaxing with my family than going out and not enjoying myself. I prefer to go out when I know things won’t be forced because let’s face it, we all have those people that has those group of friends and you don’t feel the love or sincerity in the room. I like to surround myself with good energy always, cause I bring it with me.

Well my friend had a birthday dinner and I tried to avoid it. Even if I wouldn’t have gone, I would have taken her to a great restaurant and gotten her an amazing gift, but this year she wasn’t having it. She kindly expressed that my presence was much more valuable. I’ve only known her 4 years but she supports everything that I do and shows up to everything! I thought about it, so I went and had the most amazing time. I felt the love her friends had for her (she has an amazing group of friends) which made me comfortable, and the way she smiled all night made all of us have a blast. I’m glad I went to support my friend.

Sometimes we take the easy way out of things for our own selfish reasons and have to realize that it’s not about us. We get close minded due to our experiences which forces us to protect ourselves. I do this so much and I’m working on a change. I’m also glad my friend expressed herself to me rather than just cut me off, because I’m not a communicator, I just will leave you alone. I also learned that if you feel hurt by something someone is doing to you, if you care you should express it. If that person doesn’t take your feelings into account then it’s time to move on. I felt that her friendship was worth it. Happy to call her my friend.

Have a great day everyone.

FriendsFriendsFriendsFriendsWearing: F21 Sweater, Current Elliot Denim Jeans, Christian Louboution Heels, Givenchy Bag

Leave A Comment
Share