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Today was rough. Today makes three years since my grandmother’s passing. I really try to forget about it, but I can’t. She was buried on my birthday and it kinda gets me down. I wish I would have spent more time with her. Victoria was an amazing woman! When I’m sad I just look in the sky and a star always winks at me.:) Please cherish your loved ones.
My eldest daughter had it double time today. One of her best friends brothers got killed in Iraq two days before he was supposed to come home. I send my condolences to their family. They are great people.
Can’t forget about my friend Amber who’s grandfather just passed and now her grandmother is in a coma with brain damage. Such a sad time…
“To realize the value of a sister/brother, ask someone who doesn’t have one,
To realize the value of ten years ask a newly divorced couple,
To realize the value of four years, ask a graduate,
To realize the value of one year, ask a student who has failed a final exam,
To realize the value of nine months, ask a mother who gave birth to a stillborn,
To realize the value of one month, ask a mother who has given birth to a premature baby,
To realize the value in one week, ask an editor of a weekly newspaper,
To realize the value of one minute, ask a person who missed the train, bus, or plane,
To realize the value of one second, ask a person who survived an accident,
Time waits for no one.
Treasure every moment you have.
You will treasure it even more when you can share it with someone special.”
To realize the value of a friend or a family member LOSE ONE…
Just in case you were wondering what she was whispering in my ear, “you are special”.
OMG! That was beautiful!
simply lovely and beautiful
Princess T,
Cheer up baby girl. I also miss my mom so much. She was my earth angel and best friend. They say time heal all wounds, but for me the pain gets greater every year. My mom was a Proverbs 31 woman, who was sweet, kind, loving,
God fearing, self sacrificing to all her children, grand children and great grand children. She was a rare treasure and a
priceless gem. When I look up to heaven and I see the brightest STAR I know it is my mom smiling down on us.
Baby Girl you are so sweet and beautiful just like your Grams.
Love,
Moms
Such a beautiful touching post Tanya! 🙂 A great thought too! Cherish every moment in life with everyone who is present and important in your life Time waits for no one! Like your mother says you are super sweet and very compassionate too! 🙂
Awww that was so sweet!! I'm so sorry to hear that I know how it would feel I still have my grandmother and she means the world to me
BEAUTIFUL…
Your post was so touching. I just thank God for his favor and his many blessings. Cheer up Tanya… The joy of the lord is your strength! 🙂
Be blessed.
Another beautiful post, darling!
Gorgeous dress and lovely tribute!
xoxox,
CC
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This is so beautiful! I understand your feelings today. I lost my mom 3 years ago and there's not a day that pass – I don't think or miss her, just picking up the phone being able to hear her voice – it hurts.
Wow, just wow. The resemblence of your grandmother and mine. The smile, the white hair, the complexion, etc… Wooow. THis one really blew me out the water, because my granny JUST passed on 10.12.10. I miss my old lady with all my heart. I am literally sitting here in tears. God bless you and your grandmother Tanya.
That was very touching and thank you so much for all of your prayers. You are very right that you must always cherish your love ones because tomorrow is not promised. God has the master plan and it is he who decides when it is time. I just take things one day at a time and pray for the best….GOD is good! Love Ya oh and love that pendant on your wedding dress. 🙂
You know I am particularly touched as I just lost my Grandma last month. I cant cry, although I want to, because my Mom is sitting here and I dont want to upset her.
I am certain your grandma knew and knows the infinite love you have for her. God knows as well which is why he will never leave you during this difficult time. Trust me, I know.
May your soul find comfort in knowing that the Angel who watched you on Earth is now watching you from Heaven.
Great post and words of wisdom.
Blessings,
TCD
Cute floral dress;)
i don't know your grandmother, but i bet she wouldn't want you to be down. celebrate her life and her memory and the special times you two shared. that's sure to bring on a smile and i am sure she will be smiling down on you.
I cherish you…..wish I had known this was the cause of your mood….love you…..
Tan, that is just beautiful. chin up babe, Grams knew just how much you love her, that's why she was always whispering sweet reaffirmations in your ear. Validate your love for her by continuing to be good to your self keeping her memory alive with your girls. Continue to walk in God's light and let His love be your guide, comfort and amazing blessings will always be in your life and family. I love you babe and thank you for the wise words. you are wise, strong, compassionate and SPECIAL, little lady. oh you look so cute in those outfits/// the shoes oh my gosh… sooooo u
love you and are so proud of you babe, your auntie Ruth
Wow, so touching T… I'm quite sure your grandma was an amazing woman like yourself and your mom. There is no need to be sad, just continue to smile when you think of her and remember the sound of her voice whispering in your ear on you wedding day, "you are special", because you are… This post really hit home for me. Thank you for your weekly inspirational post… By the way, you look georgeous!
this post was truly touching.. i agree that we shall not waste our time.. we never know when they'll be gone..
im very sorry for your daughter and your grandma dear.. i hope blogging pals can make you happier 🙂
i know what's it like to loose a person you totally love and care about !!
stay strong dear ! i know you can !
God bless you. Beautiful post.
I am so sorry about your grandmother's passing. When I hear about things like this I remember to be grateful for what I have (sometimes I forget). I'm so happy you stopped by LIttle Blue Deer so I could find you! XX!
Don't worry honey, our granny's are probably hanging out together in heaven. My grandmother passed 6 years ago right before Thanksgiving. I spent a lot of time with her and cherish all the great memories i have. So I definitely cherish my loved ones. I pray that everyone has a great family like I do bcuz I know it can be rough out there in the real world! Family is not always blood relatives but whoever is there to support you through the good and bad times! P.S. Love the dress! Smooches
AWWW, THIS BRINGS TONS OF MEMORIES OF MY LOVELY GRANDFATHER TOO. JUST REMEMBER THAT THEY ARE IN HEAVEN LOOKING AT US DANCE AND MAKING THEM PROUD, THEY WILL FOREVER LIVE WITHIN OUR HEARTS….OH BOY, NOW U HAVE ME THINKING ABOUT THEM. I LOVE THE PIC OF HER WHISPERING TO U….PRICELESS.
HAVE A BLESSED NIGHT AND WHEN WE LOOK AT THE SKY, REMEMBER THAT IS THEM WE ARE LOOKING:)
XOXOXO
MAURY
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OMG this post brought tears to my eyes…that poem was so beautiful and so real! Your fashion sense is awesome and I always enjoy the pics…but the messages in your post are just as amazing if not more! Love the pic of you and your nanny too!
WOW, I am so grateful to have found your blog! I love you style and deeply admire your spirit! I am at home on my lunch break trying to hold back tears, only because I don't want to have to redo my make up before head back to work (haha), but for the past few days, since I have found your blog I have been faithfully reading every free moment I get, on my lunch break, as soon as I get home from work and before bed. I can't get enough of your blogs and I know you have touch so many people, including myself. I just wanted to say keep up the good work. It is def appreciated ; )