I just finished reading this book called The Four Agreements and it’s really amazing. It talks about the agreements you need to make with yourself in order to have a peaceful and happy life. Let me share…
1. Be impeccable with your word. This one isn’t hard for me because when I say I’m going to do something I do it.
2. Don’t take anything personally. This is a hard one for me. It tells you to just basically overlook what others do to you.
3. Don’t make assumptions. Now I don’t do this in a confrontational way, but I do it my head. I’m an over thinker.
4. Always do your best. I can say 80% of the time I do my best. Sometimes I rush and feel guilty for doing so afterwards. We have to make sure that we do everything to the best of our ability so that later on you won’t beat yourself up about it.
Overall We all need self-improvement. I would recommend all of you guys to read it. It’s making me more aware of my thoughts and actions. It helps you not to focus on the chatter in your head (because it does you no good), the cruelty of others (because it has nothing to do with you) and to just put the spot light on improving YOU as a person because in the end if you aren’t feeling your best, how can you be a light of love to help others. xoxo
Wearing: F21 Top, Black Denim Shorts, Aquazzura Heels, Alexander Wang Wallet.
This is so cute
I love the book ‘The Four Agreements’. It makes sense but it is not easy to follow. The first agreement of being impeccable with your word is hard for me. Not because I don’t keep my word but because it includes saying only what you truly feel. There are times when someone may apologize to me and I will say “it’s okay” but it’s not okay and I need to be honest about it. I know that if I keep practicing the four agreements that there will be more and more improvements in my life. Glad to see that you liked the book as well. BTW, I love the outfit in this post, especially the shoes.
I want to read the book all over again after hearing your perception. Thanks love 🙂
Good replies in return of this difficulty with firm arguments
and telling all on the topic of that.
I LOVE LOVE LOVE your energy.
Its your Canadian friend, lol!!
Blessing onto you and the fam and thanks for the postive vybes.
That book is amazing!! I try and read it yearly as a reminder.
I love this look…very cute. I’ve been following your blog for a while now and I’ve bought more than a few things that you have featured here. Most notably, the Balenciaga Florabotanica, it’s absolutely my most favorite summer scent and I get so many compliments on it. So, thank you!!! I am so happy that you have reopened the comments section. Keep doing what you do!!
Thanks love I’m glad I can help in any way;)
I’m so glad and surprised to see the comments back on your blog. I’ve been following you for years and I recently also subscribed to your youtube channel. I love your shoes by the way.
I read this book many moons ago, I try to follow it, but like others said, it can be difficult. I always want to make others happy, and therefore make the assumption that others want to make me happy. Therefore I have a hard time dealing with the “not taking things personally”. But I always always always try to do my best.
Thanks for always being classy, elegant and inspiring.
Fabulous!
beautiful woman, beautiful mind, beautiful spirit, beautiful attitude. Love you
Thanks for the blog post, can I set it up so I receive an email sent to me whenever there is a new update?
What a coincidence….I just bought that book! Cute look! Those shoes are the business!
You have some amazing heels! Always on point and such sexy legs too! 😉 x x x
cool