If you’re one of those people that can go somewhere and the energy in the room doesn’t phase you then you are a very blessed person. I always thought that it was a curse for me to feel the bad vibes whenever I’m around people. It kinda throws me off sometimes because I’m such a happy person and I love people so much. When I go out to different events sometimes I can feel the negative energy in some people and if it’s someone you don’t know then you really just have to brush it off, but when you go someplace you’ve been invited to by close friend’s or family and it’s suppose to be a intimate occasion filled with love, it can get weird.
I just started learning the power of energy. I can be going through the worst thing ever and if I commit to something I’m going to show up. When I show up I’m smiling always. I watched on a episode of Oprah, that you need to be careful of the energy you bring into someone’s space. She has a sign up in her office “be careful of the energy you bring into this space”. Only after I heard that from one of the most successful people in the world was when I knew this is real and I had to surround myself with great energy and separate myself from negative energy.
Now when it’s in your control you’d think is would be simple right, but for me that’s not always the case. I found myself to be a people pleaser. When I have a party (wedding, baby shower) I like take care of everyone around me. I want them to eat the best and feel the best . This is just me. But I’m now learning the key to this is to do it for the right people! Don’t waste your good energy on bad people! That’s the key. As I’m writings this I’m still feeling sorry for the people that I had let go recently because of bad energy. I’ve seen the good in them at one point, but I can no longer waste my energy trying to cater to someone that needs to look within and change who they are which will take time and growth on their part.
Spare yourself the headache and let go of bad energy people. I don’t care who they are separate yourself and if you feel bad pray for that person. They’ll in time come around, and if not don’t lose any sleep. I can no longer waste my what’s suppose to be enjoyable moments on bad energy people. I feel this is one of the keys to a smoother life.;)
Tip of the day: Try not to entertain the wrong people…
Wearing: Gryphon skirt, Vertigo Top, Christian Louboutin Heels, Christian Dior Bag.