I received an email from a young lady about a week ago and I immediately responded telling her to send me her number, but never heard back from her. She stated that life is so tough for her and she doesn’t have any close friends or family near her while finishing her schooling abroad, in addition her mother doesn’t even bother to check on her. She also said she feels like giving up.
I want to take the time to tell this young lady to stay strong. This experience will give you character and show you that YOU are all YOU got. You also have to learn to depend on God when you’re feeling alone. Please never forget that He is there when no one else is. He has gotten me through my tough times when I felt like “why is happening to me”.
I’ve had my fare share of trials. I made it through with prayer, faith and knowing that there is a reason why this is happening. I wouldn’t change one thing if I could either…when you look back you’ll see it wasn’t that bad and you’ll admire yourself for your strength.
I want all of my readers to pray for this girl. She’s a young girl alone so let’s pray for her to stay busy and focused on school so that she can be a successful young lady and meet a successful young man and have an amazing family that she’s always desired.:)
Tip of the day: It’s ok to stand alone and stand strong sometimes! Remember this struggle is temporary.
Wearing: Elizabeth and James Blazer, Sweet Rags Silk razor tank, Paige Jean Shorts, Gucci Bag, YSL Heels.
How cute is this look! I love the idea of pairing the cutoffs with the blazer!
Love all the colors!
I agree w/ the statement you made. My Mother left at 17, it was truly difficult to find my way but staying busy and working always helped me progress. Don't ever give up, education is the best thing right now!
Natalie
I love the pairing of these colors together. OOOOHHHH I want that blazer! Now you'll have me looking for one in this color! Tsk! Tsk! Another item to add to my shopping wishlist! Thanks, Tanya! LOL
Prissy
I will pray for her and I hope she reads your post!
Love your blazer!!! LOVEE IT!
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Amazing look and advice, darling!
Love those YSLs!
xoxox,
CC
I am going to pray for this young lady. I hope that she is safe and can get through her situation and grow from it and be even stronger. I hope she reaches you so you can talk with her. You have helped me so much and I am certain that a converstaion with you will help her. Giving up is NEVER and option! I have been through so much but all of my tough experiences have built my character and I am sure the same will happen for her. I hope she reads this post and I hope with all of our prayers going up, blessings will come down for her 🙂
Im going to pray for her. You are so very true in the words you speak whenever you feel your alone just pray God is always there. Also God would never put you through anything you can not handle.
Your out fit is cut and i love the hair. Oh i got to purchase me a wand lol
Love ya
Love the pink and yellow mix! Will def pray for her!
Nneka
This is beautiful advice Tanya. I am a new follower of your blog and I keep coming back not only for your fab fashion eye but for your lovely lovely words or wisdom and advice. You always seem to speak the truth and from the heart. I will surely keep this young lady in my prayers.
Best,
Naja
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Chic necklace that I would love to rock – Check!
I love this post. I love the advice that you gave. God turn this young ladies life around very soon. Thanks for sharing this. Btw you look nice as well. Love those heels 🙂
i really love your messages, as i have said many times before. i will keep the young lady in my prayers, as well as you and all the other readers of your blog. great outfit as well, and i hope you are doing well 🙂
~nic
need that blazer ASAP!
Love this look, the bright colors are POPPIN
I love that color blazer as you are so adorable in this look 🙂
i'm glad you offered to talk to her. I will keep he rin my thoughts. It's such a blessing to be a blessing! Take care!
Awesome tip of the day and I will be praying for her. I have to commend you on reaching out to her, that was really sweet of you.
I will keep this young lady in my prayers…thanks for posting this…
I will pray for her because I can understand what she's going through. Prayers and faith are the key.
Your outfit is cute and I like your necklace too.
I completely agree that giving up is not an option. Unfortunately, a lack of support in a place unfamiliar takes a toll on others differently. I highly suggest this young lady get involved in some different activities and social groups on campus to establish a support system for herself so she can stay strong through this journey! We all know that the Lord doesn't put you in any situation that you can't handle. This young lady will find her inner strength and rise above this situation. I wish her luck! I love the water fountain in the background of thisbphoto shoot and the play on all the different colors! Jus lovely in the summer! Smooches
This is so cute! Give me that necklace
Wishing this young girl much success. It may seem difficult to be alone in a foreign land, but it makes it easier if you get out and immerse yourself into the culture and get to know people. You have such a wonderful opportunity that many people will not ever have in their lifetime. So please, enjoy it now. One day you will be able to tell someone you do this and that while abroad, and inspire someone to travel somewhere as well. Please take care of yourself. All the best. xx
Sorry I am just now reading this!! I could not have said it better myself! You hit the nail right on the head! I want to say to that young lady that I have had one tradgedy after the other in my life. I also, would not change a thing! It has made me stronger and God WILL reward you. Just hold on! I know it's hard but you will see that in hindsight it ALL make sense! Trust me. You are going to be so rewarded for all of your trials and tears. Stay connected to positive people and join a "good" church where you can be around positive people. That is so important!
If you don't have a mother or a sister or a father God will send you one. On my journey I have met so many new family members. You have a family in the body of Christ!
And of course you are welcome to join http://www.gospelsoupcafe.com for a community of support and encouragement!!
And LISTEN to Tanya! 🙂