Today is my anniversary! The love of my life has came a long way. When I first met my husband he was just my type but I thought he wouldn’t be a match for me. Well turns out (my fly guy) he’s perfect or tuned out to be perfect (in my eyes). I learn so much from him. He’s such a wise and loyal person. He’s a REAL man not a coward and never fake. I feel like others respect him because he’s a man of his word in addition to being a good person.

Today makes six years we’ve been married. I remember our first anniversary, he took me on one of those ultimate vacations I always talk about and I caught him buying a card in the store when we arrived to our destination. STRIKE:1. Then we get to the room and got settled in and he never can wait to give me my gifts because he loves giving me gifts, so I opened my gift and I started crying. Strike:2. I won’t say what it was but it was something that was very normal and it was the kind of thing that I get whenever I want so it didn’t seem special, I felt like he really didn’t put thought into the gift as I did his. Well needless to say he didn’t get to strike 3 because he kneeled down on both knees and said ” I’m soo sorry. I understand and you are right. I didn’t take this day serious. I’ve never been married before, but if you teach me and tell me what husbands should get wives I promise I’ll never get it wrong again.”:)))). Of course I gave him a hug and I explained to him it’s not how much the gift cost rather than the significance and I want something that I can have for the rest of my life.

HE ACED IT EVERY YEAR SINCE!!!! I LOVE HIM SOO MUCH, I couldn’t love him more if I tried!
B baby we made it 6 years and I know that we are set now (cause you know what’s make’s me mad and you hate to make me mad{right}:).!

Tip of the day (for B): This is something you can see for the rest of your life…
This is normally what we stock our bar with on special occasion… see you soon….
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33 thoughts on “the kinda jewelry that’s sick when it hits the light

  1. Six years married… hard to believe that we made it this far, thanks to you always being there for me in my corner, helping me to change into the person that I've always wanted to be. The person that I strive to be everyday is the best husband to you and the best father to my girls. I feel like this is still a work in progress, you never gave up on me and I thank God for giving you strength for staying in my corner.
    You are so right when you wrote that I don't like to make you mad. Making you happy is my true mission in life. Every year it get's better . Our 7th anniversary will be even better than our 6th that my word. Today I honor you as my queen as I do everday and I once again thank God for bringing you to me. I may have taught you some things about life, but you taught me the importance of family. Next to God family is now the two most important things in my life. I thank you as I always do… you are the love of my life and my best friend.

    Like I always say baby girl I must have done something right for God to bring you my way, I love you! B

  2. congratulations!!! and happy anniversary! May God continue to bring you joy and happiness! You are such a beautiful person inside and out. You have helped me so much just through simple advice and conversations that will probably change the outcome of my life, you had nothing to gain by giving me your time and sending me down the right path but you did it anyway and I thank you for that. Enjoy your special day girl!!! And many more to come 🙂

  3. You have no idea the lesson you just taught me on how to communicate with my husband. He always gets me what I ask for. He has never tried to get something for me on his own. This is perfect timing since my birthday is in 5 days.

    Thank you so much!

    Happy Anniversary and I wish you and your husband many more.

  4. Congrats on older memories and the ones to come! I get so giddy on "our" special day and it's so cool when other people get it, 🙂

  5. Happy Anniversary! My hubby and I have our second wedding anniversary next month. It will be two years. 🙂

  6. Wow, Happy Anniversary Tanya, to you & your husband, I pray that you two will celebrate many more to come! My husband & I will be celebrating our 21st Wedding Anniversary on August 24. I haven't forgotten the wonderful advice that you gave me;) I will send you a photo of us in the near future, thanks again. xoxoxoxoxoxoxo, Lina71.

  7. Happy Anniversary to you both and may God continue to shower his love and blessings on you and the family. Have a fabulous celebration!!!!

  8. Congrats! Every relationship has their ups and downs but when you are blessed to find the right person it makes it all worth it. Reading this strengthen my faith in my relationship.

    I wish you both many more years of love, happiness and blessings!

  9. OMG Im going to cry. That is so beautiful (your message to him and his message for you). I truly wish you guys nothing but happiness you truly deserve it. I love you Sis.

  10. Happy Anniversary!! I wish the two of you many more. I've been told many times, the first year of marriage is the hardest!! Glad you made it thru!

    Have a great week.
    Natalie

  11. How wonderful Tanya! 🙂 Hope you had a great Anniversary Weekend … wishing you many many more ahead. Lots and lots of love!!!

    – tearing at my desk! be blessed

  12. Congratulation on you ! This is so sweet and his last post made it even sweeter . Nothing like seeing two people in love . Congratulation again !!

  13. Awwe! Your message to him and His message to you is a pure example of unconditional love. Happy Anniversary! I wish you many many many more anniversaries to come!

    Black love is beautiful 🙂

  14. Congrats and what beautiful messages. You can't go wrong with God in your marriage. My husband and I celebrated 15 years in March and God is who has kept us. On another subect, your blog shows such courage to speak on your beliefs and growth, but if you don't mind me asking what influenced you or how did you develop your personal taste and style?

  15. Happy Anniversary! Marriage is beautiful in all of it's ups and downs. My 9th anniversary is this christmas and we are getting re-married next year for our 10th! I pray God blesses you both with many more years to come!

  16. Happy Anniversary! Your messages to each other are so sincere and heartfelt. I wish the two of you many more blessed and happy years! Black love is something beautiful… <3

  17. Congratulations T and B on six years of holding it down with each other! It is an inspiration for me to see two people make a commitment and enjoy the positive aspects in a marriage. I don't believe marriage is for everyone but for those who are willing to take that leap of faith and journey together I commend you. May you have many more years of wedded bliss. Love Big Sister, smooches!

  18. Chile your husband sounds like a dream. THe kinda guy that most of us dont even believe exists. lol You are very fortunate, congratulations on your 6th anniversary.

  19. Spoiled BRAT!! haha lol. But I like the way you get what you want and I like even more that you have a man humble enough to want to treat you how you need to be treated. There's alotta selfish, insecure men out there that can't handle a woman that knows what she wants. AND alotta men just don't know better, you just have to show them.

    God bless you guys! May you be together forever and ever! Happy Belated Anniversary!